Ken
writes, "I am a 25 year old man and I really like
reading your
article on
dating Japanese women. Personally I am
in love with a woman who is 13 years older than I
am. She is
really beautiful, smart, and
really cool to talk to, but sadly we haven't seen
each other for a while (mostly I have tried to reduce my
interest towards her, but when we meet... there is no
time, I am really in love with her, damn our current
culture and beliefs towards age)."
Life is too short my friend and
good women are hard to find. My recommendation is
that you
find time for her and
share with her your feelings towards her. If you are
afraid so much of the culture and belief systems, you
will not
go too far in life because you will not do what you
want but will constantly be bullied by the society. So
be a man and do what your heart tells you and hopefully
things will fall in place. And my personal experience
with older
Japanese women is that they get better with age. The
more experienced they get the more open and warm
they become. |
