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Japanese vs. Chinese girls

Comparison of two types of women

Summary:  An Asian man married to a Chinese lady shares his views and compares his wife to his ex Japanese girlfriend.
1. Is casual romance on the mind of a Japanese woman when she goes overseas or meets foreign men?  Do Japanese women feel and behave differently in the company of non-Japanese?

My wife who is Chinese at first gave me a feeling of real romance, family and a future of children.  After eight months of being together, her real attention was to make it in America with or without out me as long as I don't bring her down to a low level of shame to her family.  My answer is they let you see what they want you to see to their advantage unless you agree to it with an open mind.

2. Why do Japanese women have sex with foreigners? Is it to check out how other races do it? Is it because many women think that Japanese men do not do a great job in bed? Is it because they think that all non-Japanese have big organs? Or is it just curiosity?  Or is it because they can show off the gajin boyfriend as a trophy?

So far we agreed not to have sex, even though she is willing.  My fear is money is always a large issue with her and as long as I keep it private and separate from her personal agenda we seem to be happy with just heavy making out which I consider a great high.  But I am sure she is curious about it since she makes mention about it every now and then. 

3.  There are dozens of stories that we have heard when a Japanese woman will have a steamy romance with a foreign man and then simply disappear without a word about her whereabouts.  Why do they do it?  Why can’t they have a proper breakup?  In some cases why do Japanese women breakup but also buy expensive gifts for their lovers at the time of breakup?

I think they are capable of shutting certain emotions.  They teach them 10 minute intercourse is acceptable, if a baby is born with a disorder, they have no remorse about abandoning it.  There is nothing in their souls except what you can do for me I guess?

4. Many men think that Japanese women have fewer inhibitions - they are more likely to try new things and do almost anything in the bedroom.  Is it true?  If so, why is that? 

One Japanese woman I've been with did every position I thought possible and was nice about it.  And treated me like a prince for two hours.  With the right person they can be more sexually active than most men.

5.  While Japanese women are more open minded about intimacy and are likely to be active at an early age, how is that so many Japanese women in their 20s and 30s are virgins despite having boyfriends for many years?

They trap home with their family's and won't take a chance getting pregnant until the family wishes are accomplished, steady job, and the right man who won't abandon them.  My wife had only three boyfriends, she says, but only the first one she was intimate with until her mother told her to drop this loser.  Now this loser is a big success in her town with a wife and children.  She does things in the USA that her mother has no knowledge of.  A little rebel.

 
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