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About A Boy movie review

Picture of a couple at dinnerAbout a Boy is one of those movies that can be categorized as a romantic comedy by people who are way too romantic or as a comedy-drama by those who see an underlying serious theme but told with a bit of humor.  When I watched it, I got the feeling that it was a movie with an undercurrent of philosophy dealing with an existential crisis in the life of Will (Hugh Grant).  He is a carefree man who does not have to deal with jobs or responsibilities because he is fortunate enough not to need any money.  So as a life that we all fantasize of having, he has zero interest in anything requiring commitments like marriage or fatherhood.  Actually, he reminded me so much of the life of Meursault, the main character in the two books written by Albert Camus: A Happy Death and The Stranger.

To his surprise that is not how the world works.  It is clear that most people want to have jobs not just for themselves but also expect others to have jobs or babies in order to have fulfilling lives.  They have a hard time appreciating that one can be perfectly happy without a job and/or kids.  Rather than changing the world and accepting him as he is, Will ends up befriending a boy (Marcus) without a father and becomes pseudo-dad for him.  In the process of playing this role, not only does Will learn something more about the world, but also about himself.  He makes more changes in his life to not just interact with people but also engage with them and build meaningful relationships with them.

Fiona (Toni Collette) is the mother of Marcus and delivers a spectacular performance.  Rachel Weisz plays Rachel, a single mom, who eventually becomes a good friend of Will, though, he had a crush on her and wanted her to be his girlfriend.  Overall, a great movie to watch.

Black Swan film review

Pic of Nataly Portmane with ballet dancer makeup onWhether Natalie Portman danced the ballet sequences or not, it does not matter, because not only is this a movie (which means that there will be effects and tricks and that is what viewers should not care about), she is still such a great actress.  The movie still has been so remarkable that the kissing scene or Natalie Portman and Mila Kunis is so talked about and there is even talk of a Black Swan diet.

The plot is a little complicated because this is a psychological thriller.  If you have never experienced the kind of emotions that Nina experiences in the world of highly competitive ballet dancing world, you may have a hard time appreciating her character.  The plot is further complicated with Nina exploring her bisexuality and the intense love-hate relationship with fellow dancer Lily (Mila Kunis).

Just know that not all that is happening to Nina is real; a lot of what happens is all in her head, but that is no reason not to watch this film because Natalie Portman is outstanding.

Eat, Pray, Love movie review

Picture of July Roberts eating gellato

As people in poor countries often joke that midlife crisis is something that happens to people with way too much money and spare time, this movie reinforces that theory.  Elizabeth M. Gilbert, who wrote the book that forms the basis for the movie, is nothing but a spoiled American woman who funded her adventures to find herself through a generous advance from a book publisher.  In other words, if you cannot find someone to pay for your sabbatical, do not even think about it.  Actually, the other day when a woman called the Suze Orman show asking her if she could afford $50,000 plus for a one year sabbatical to find her passion in life, Suze’s response was not only hilarious, but right on spot.  She basically told her to instead find an hour each day to reflect on her life and passions because chances are that she would come back one year later and complain that not only she could not find herself but also has spend most of her savings.

So the spoiled Gilbert (Julia Roberts) refuses to work on her marriage, divorces him on impulse, and then packs up and leaves for Italy, supposedly to pig out on Italian cuisine.  After abandoning skinny jeans and buying baggy clothes to hide her overweight body, she heads to India to find inner peace.  A lot of stereotyping about both Italy and India as if Italy is worth going only for its food and somehow one can find eternal peace in a chaotic country like India.  Finally, she head to Bali, in yet another quest to find what she could not find here at home: love.  It is there she meets a charming Brazilian Felipe (Javier Bardem) and concludes that she has reached her destination.

The movie is interesting in the sense that it forces all of us to think about our lives and how we should focus on finding happiness, but it is not the path I would recommend that you choose unless you can find a rich idiot to finance it.  Life is too complex to find answers in one year and it is much better to work on these existential issues each day rather than hoping for a miraculous discovery while overeating in Italy or meditating in India or making out on a beach in Bali.