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My
Japanese girlfriend
There
is nothing else in the world that I love more than her......By Jeff Pomeroy
A
few months ago I noticed a beautiful Asian girl in my school. I am
a white guy living in the United States of America but I have
known many Japanese people and have studied Japanese for a few
years. Anyway, I realized that she was Japanese immediately and
she seemed very shy and it seemed like maybe she could not speak
English. I asked my friend about her and he told me that Haruka
was an exchange
student. Since it was nearly the end of the year I decided not to
attempt to ask her out or even talk to her. I would see her
everyday in school though, and I could not help looking at her she
was so beautiful. She was always dressed very
tastefully, though I
must add, very attractive too. As
the weeks went by we made more eye
contact, but being generally
awkward with girls I have never met and not being very
knowledgeable on female flirting tactics I thought that she was
just making eye contact with me because I couldn’t stop staring
at her.
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 One
day I was engrossed in reading a book on a bench in the sun when
she came up to me and after apologizing a lot for bothering me she
asked if I would please accept a piece of paper with her name and
number on it and in return give her mine. I was very surprised to
say the least. American girls would never approach me in that way;
they especially would not apologize for wanting to give me their
number. On the other
hand, I am usually the one who has to beg for their number. I
immediately took the piece of paper that she gave me and tore a
sheet of paper from my notebook and wrote down mine.
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She ran away as quickly as she came.
After the reality set in that the girl I have been dreaming
about for months had just made a move toward me, I became very
excited and called her as soon as I got home. I learned that she
was an exchange student and was not allowed to have a boyfriend
but was very interested in me and did not care about the rule
since it was the end of the year.
I agreed to her suggestion that we go out and we did stuff
that most couples in our age bracket were doing – go to the mall,
play
videogames, and watch movies.
After
dating for a while I took Haruka to a dance club for her 18th
birthday. We connected so well and loved being with one another.
At first I didn’t want to get serious because I knew she would
leave me and return to Japan soon. But she was so amazing that I
had to try to be with her so I asked her if she wanted to get
serious and try for a long-term (and soon to be long
distance)
relationship. She was overjoyed at the offer and our relationship
entered a new phase.
We
were together a few months and during that time we had a great
romantic relationship. Haruka has been the most amazing
lover I have ever had and could not imagine intimacy with anyone else
being better. What I also find
unique about her is that she is very committed to trying to make
me happy. As we have fallen into love I really enjoy pleasing her as
much as she seems to enjoy pleasing me.
She
is also self-conscious and thinks that I’m crazy for finding her
so attractive. Ironically
enough, Haruka is also very shy, even though she is
amazing at it. I would love to know how to make her less shy but
it has been difficult. She has gone back to Japan now but we talk
everyday and I am leaving in a few days to visit her in Japan for
2 weeks. We decided
to try to stay together and she is very devoted to me. I love her
more than anything and want to make her happy. She is not used to
guys treating her the way I treat her. She says that her
ex-boyfriends in Japan would never say ‘I love you’ and be so
gentle in bed. I
think I have found my soul
mate.
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