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Kyoto Connection
Excerpts from the book by Deborah Kemp

I closed my eyes and enjoyed the relaxing warmth of the hot tub. I had adopted the Japanese custom of bathing in communal hot tubs, since my tiny apartment had a shower, but no bathtub.  This was the first time I had come to this particular sento, and I was the only bather there that afternoon.  It was late May in Kyoto, and I was enjoying a rare afternoon off from my job as an English translator for the HMT Corporation. When I first came to Kyoto over two years ago, I had just completed a graduate program in Japanese studies. I was twenty-six, unmarried and was getting over a breakup with a boyfriend, so the prospect of seeing the country I had studied for so long, was very appealing to me. My close-knit family was sad to see me leave, but they were supportive of my decision.  They could not have anticipated the degree to which I would embrace my new home.
 

I spoke Japanese from my years of studying it in high school and college, as well as from speaking with the Japanese exchange students my family hosted, but I found that even my extensive knowledge of the language did not fully prepare me for my experience of living in Kyoto. I grew used to people being shocked that I could speak the language at all, since I was gaijin (foreigner), but my fluency increased quickly as I grew accustomed to the Kyoto dialect.

I had accepted a job teaching English in one the “Big Three” language schools in order to obtain a work visa. I spent a year teaching, and through my contacts with some of the men who attended night classes, I was able to secure a job as a translator in a company that had dealings in America.

Photo of the Ginkakuji temple in Kyoto JapanDuring the year I spent teaching English, I made several good friends who were also Americans teaching there, and I continued to socialize with them. None of them spoke much Japanese, so they enjoyed being able to go out with me knowing I could actually read a menu. I had made some Japanese friends as well, and I was very happy with my life in Kyoto. I spent my free time visiting temples and shopping at the many markets and stores Kyoto had to offer. In my more than two years there, I had managed to visit a few places outside Kyoto like Tokyo, Nagoya, Osaka, Nara, but I always returned to Kyoto with the feeling that I was coming home. I could not explain this feeling to my friends and family, but I loved Kyoto and felt more at home there than I had ever felt anywhere.

As I lay there in the tub, I thought back to last month when the cherry blossoms had been in full bloom - sakura , and I remembered how much fun the parties celebrating spring had been. There were so many festivals in Kyoto for each season, but certainly sakura time was one of my favorites. Summer would bring my favorite-Gion Matsuri with its beautiful floats, then Obon in August with the massive bonfires visible from the mountains at night. People always praised autumn in Kyoto where omiji-gari-autumn color viewing, made people flock to the temples and the hills of Arashiyama to see the vibrant colors of the leaves. I had spent my life in New England, so leaf peeping was no novelty to me. Still I enjoyed the season and even found winter more to my liking than the snowy, cold New England winters of my past. Kyoto winters were very cold, but they didn’t get too much snow or ice.   “Excuse me. Do you mind if I join you in the tub?” asked a naked Japanese man who was holding a small towel below his waist to cover himself. I opened my eyes in shock at both the naked man and the fact that he was speaking fluent English to me. I was so surprised that I didn’t immediately think to cover my front until I noticed him staring intently at my body with a smile on his face. I grabbed the small towel that the sento provided, and quickly covered myself.  

I had never been to this place before, but I knew it was a co-ed bathhouse.  I thought no one would show up in the afternoon, so I took a chance that I would be alone there. I stared at his face and thought he was the most beautiful man I had ever seen. His thick, dark hair was cut short in the current trendy clip that accentuated his chiseled good looks. My eyes traveled down his body, and I was amazed at how athletic and muscular his body was. I realized I was staring, and yet he made no effort to sit. “Please sit down,” I said to him. “I know you have as much right to be here as I do, but I’d be more comfortable if you sat.  I actually felt more comfortable staying under the water than I would if I had to get up and walk away naked. Besides, it had been a long time since I had spoken English to such an attractive companion.  

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