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How to change my life?

I am sick of my current life

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Caroline writes, "I am so unhappy and feeling like I am dying inside. My husband and I have been married now for 7 years and we moved to US Virgin Islands 5 years ago. I feel so trapped. I have no money and even my phone is in his name. We have nothing in common, no job, just daily existence. Our sex life is nil. He has HIV and I don't like sex with him. He gives me everything I want but I want more than stuff: fun, laughter, doing spontaneous things together.  He is just always talking about money and work; it drives me nuts. I don't know what to do. I am always threatening I am leaving but I stay. We are both recovering alcoholics so I don't know if it's the disease that is tearing us apart or that I should listen to my heart. Please help."

By waiting you are not making things any better. On the contrary you are just prolonging your misery. It seems that you do not have kids together and that is a good thing but you will still need money to be on your own. Are you educated to find a job quickly? Do you have friends/family who can support you for a while so that you can become independent? If so, then just take the plunge and change your life. Leave him after giving him some time so that he can organize his life, considering that he is somewhat sick, and then just go ahead and do what you want to do. Life is too short to wait for miracles to happen.
 

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