 When you a
confront a cheater (or at least someone you suspect is
cheating), an innocent person will be direct and answer
the question with a simple "no" and they are o.k. with
silence, claims Body Language Expert Janine Driver. While on
the other hand, a liar gets nervous about being believed, so
they will say one of the following 11 verbal responses and
then they will keep talking and talking and talking (repeating
their story over and over again).
- Who me?
- Are you saying you think I am cheating on
you?
- What kind of person do you think I am?
- I would be stupid to cheat on you!
- It would be impossible to cheat on you!
- I swear I would never cheat on you
- My word is my bond (Related:
How to
catch a cheat?)
- Honestly, I didn't cheat
- If I cheated, prove it!
- I already answered that!
- I knew this would happen!
Now, of
course, if the cheater has read articles like this or is
just a smart liar, she or he could fool you. In other
words, these responses are good indicators to confirm
your suspicions but not enough to definitely prove
infidelity. You may still need more evidence that
you can collect if you
hire a private investigator.
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Cheating confessions
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