to make sure that women climax?
need to work together to provide high quality intimacy to each
MYNIPPON recently asked us, "After
reading your articles I was somewhat relieved that it seems that I am not the only girl who has never experienced
a climax. My partner and I both enjoy the incredible intimacy involved in doing
other things, as it shows us just how close we are to one another, and that we can share absolutely everything with each other. We love to just gaze at each other so intensely as we each
please ourselves passionately. However, I am
even then not able to climax. I have heard and read that this may be caused by a lack of emotional attachment or trust, but that is certainly not the case with my partner. We have been together for years, are best friends and possibly the two closest people in the world. I have never been abused. However, we were both
clueless about sex when we met each other and I am wondering if the lack of experience may be the reason. Please help me if you can understand my dilemma."
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and physical intimacy)
What is wrong with your situation and what to do about it?
It is ironical that in our society good
education is still frowned upon. Even when we do get some, it is taught in such a way that the focus is on hygiene and prevention against diseases. Hardly ever, do we find that anyone is willing to teach us about the
pleasure aspects, which I consider even more important. No wonder, we learn only through trial and
error about intimacy for
couples. If we end up being with a partner who is not adventurous enough, we might just as well will die without ever experiencing anything. So it is very likely that you and your partner are not
right body motions. A woman's
private organs are hidden and hard to reach if the man does not know where they are and how he can reach them. A
visit to a couple of good websites and books on female anatomy will be helpful for both of you to read. You must then
let him explore your body, preferably in front of a mirror as you help him
learn more about the female body.
A man is typically trying to please himself as much as he is trying to please you. This is very natural. However, all couples have to realize that there will be times when your job is to please only your partner whether you achieve
a climax or not. In most cases, if you have a strong emotional bond with your partner, you will feel a sense of pleasure by
helping your partner reach
a climax. Thus, you must emphasize to your partner that he needs to
make love to you for your own sake also, at least some time.
You must also make sure that you are
physically able to experience pleasure.
If certain positions are uncomfortable for you, please try other ones.
You may also try pleasure
creams for women that will help with lubrication.
Consult a doctor for more help.
You must also ask your partner if he is experiencing discomfort or pain. Does he suffer from
any other complications? He must immediately see a physician for advice.
(Related article: Dealing
with erectile dysfunction)
If none of the above applies to you, then
just keep trying. Gather as much knowledge as you can through
websites, videos, and books and a personal advisor and then do not hesitate to try till you achieve
a climax (How to
make a woman hot). As clearly pointed out in the book, Amy's Tutorial: Reshape Your Womanhood, "All women basically have the same equipment and same potential to achieve
a climax. If you are not handicapped or physically disable you must have
it without serious troubles."
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