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Monica
rites, "My husband is a
police
officer and there have been times when he came home
just to
have sex while he was on the clock. I'm like if it
is that easy for him to come home to me it's easy for
him to go somewhere else. He's like a
sexholic.
He wants to do it every day and I don't. I used to want
it every day but that was when we got
engaged and got married. Time has gone by and I
don't want it as much, especially after
becoming a mom to two kids. In the beginning, I hate
to say this but, I had to teach him
how to make love because he moved like a 70 year old
man. It was as if he was inexperienced. He really likes
oral sex
but I do that once in a blue moon. I discovered
something else in his work bag (baby/body wipes and
condoms). What's that for? He's a police officer; what's
the point of having those items? I have also noticed
semen stains on his
underwear. Is my
husband cheating?"
It is
very clear that this man is
having sex
with someone else, maybe more than one (the whole baby
wipes and condoms thing makes sense to me). I can't say
that it is with women or men. I hope you know it but it
is easy for cops to get free sex.
I know it is hard to be
married to a sex addict but you have some thinking
to do. Even if you
collect solid evidence that he is cheating on you,
what will
you do with it?
Confrontation with a cheat will only make your
marriage bitter and he will get angrier at you
destroying your
relationship as a couple. |
