Summary: A woman reads
the positive signals from a man that she likes a lot but
wonders if he is merely playing with her or is he
secretly in love with her too. Read below what she
sees and how she can make sure that he is serious about
her or not.
Kristie
writes, "I got to know a
guy and we were just friends until I started
to
fall in love with him. Our
conversations began to get personal and we
mostly talked about love but we never told each
other that we loved each other even though we
knew how the other felt. Later he began to get
colder. He stopped asking me
about love and we rarely talked. So I
decided to tell him that I loved him. When I
told him he said that he loved me too but he
decided to ignore his feelings because he
doesn't want to lose me and we agreed to stay
best friends. Recently, however, I
have noticed a big change in his
attitude and now when we talk he keeps
calling me honey and
sweetheart often with a
naughty tone. I
think he knows I still love him but I don't know
if he still does. Just yesterday he asked me,
'What would've happened if you became my
girlfriend?' And he also asked me. 'If I
told you
that I love you what would you say?' How can I
know what I mean to him and if he still loves me
or not?"
Based
on what you tell me, it seems that he is inclined to
have a
romantic relationship with you but due to your
history together everyone is very confused. By talking
in this manner, he is testing to see where you stand. I
think the time has come to ask him all the questions
that you have in your mind and also honestly admit your
feelings to him. Maybe you both will have some
uncomfortable moments but it is best to clear everything
up so that if you two feel about a
romantic relationship you can work on it and if you
both don't, it maybe time for you to
find a romantic lover and have him as a
casual
friend. You will also have an opportunity to tell
him talking to you like that in case he does not want to
be involved
romantically with you.
I think it is the right time for you both
to be honest with yourself and with each other and say what
you really feel in your hearts. This is no time to hide
emotions and
give confusing signals.
Based
on what you tell me, it seems that he is inclined to
have a