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It
has been an amazing experience for me. While I am a
strong believer in the goodness of things and people, I
am absolutely shocked to know that
people on this planet
have such a basic
need to love and be loved. I have
traveled to many countries and have lived outside
Japan for a while. On a typical day in any part of the
world, you will not feel that people around you would be
willing to
give
you so much love, unless you ask for it. The game
completely changes if you ask for it and that is what I
have done. I have uncovered one fact of life, To
get love,
you have to ask for it!. I have been overwhelmed with
emotional letters from both men and women
sharing their lives with me, their
fears, feelings, pain, and how much connected they
feel with me just because I am willing to listen and I
am ready to
offer my love if you love me.
As Paul writes to
me, "It is quite interesting how we all seem to
live with one passion that never seems to disappear
- to wish that someone love us. It's almost as if love
is as important as everything else that we wish - food,
clothing, money, security, etc. I can attest to the
truthfulness of this statement. Lately, my insatiable
desires for
love
from a Japanese woman has grown to unprecedented
proportions. In my thoughts and in my dreams, so much of
my time is spent imagining how much
love I can show a woman if only she'd let me. The
romance and the
passion. I've
never had a girlfriend before and didn't
have a good childhood. In fact it can be said that
I had a relatively
horrible childhood. I never and still don't
have many friends. I'm not sure what to do to
fulfill these desires. I think you're a sweet and caring
person. I'm no poet and it's hard for me to describe my
thoughts in words but, I don't really understand why
you're doing this Internet thing anyway. I'm sure you
could
find love in Tokyo easily.
Finding love
wherever
What Paul says is
so true! However, is it possible to
find love in the area that you live? I am not so
sure. In fact most of the time we do not
find love we just compromise because it is hard to
find
someone whom we truly love because the person who
has the best fit for us may not live in our area and we
could never
meet that person unless we could use something like
the Internet to search the whole planet for us. Are we
able to access every person this way? Probably not!
Not everyone is on the
Internet looking for love, some are already
in a relationship, and some are skeptical about this
whole thing. It does, however, improve your chances
considerably.
Dan seems to agree
with me. He is using technology to find what he seeks.
He writes, I think the biggest turn off I had recently
was with someone who told me that she doesn't have an
e-mail, and moreover,
hates
computers because she's impatient with them. I'm
computer illiterate! Who doesn't have an e-mail these
days? |
