 Kent
writes, "There is this
girl that I love and I think she does feel the same
for me, but the problem is that she wants me to
have sex with her because I am a
virgin and she believes by doing so I'll really
prove my love to her. Should I submit to her demand
because I don't want her to
end the relationship?"
Why
have you been a
virgin
so far? Just lack of opportunity or for a reason, for
instance, that you will have
sex only after marriage?
I am not convinced that
having sex with someone is a proof of love and it is
a rather immature condition placed on you.
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Therefore, if you are a
virgin because of a religious reason or you
wish to
have sex only to your wife, then you should
not
have sex with her and tell her so. She
should respect that choice of yours if she loves
you and wants to have meaningful relationship
with you. |
Having said that, it seems that she is
simply intrigued by your
virginity, and in a playful manner, wants you to
make her feel special. She may not mean any harm at all
-- actually, most people are fascinated by the idea of
helping someone
lose
their virginity with them. So if you love her and
there is nothing else stopping you, it will be awesome
for you to
make love to her for the first time. Hopefully, it
will
make your relationship solid.
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