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Daisy
writes, "I am 23 and a
virgin. How can I amaze my
boyfriend in bed when we
make love for the first time?"
Yes, indeed, it can be frightening to realize to do
something that you have never done before, but trust me,
it is not as difficult as it sounds. What I
often tell my readers is to do what feels good to you
and to your partner.
Now, you have not told me what you know and don't
about sex,
so I am assuming that you know a lot, you just haven't
done it.
Regarding
amazing your boyfriend in bed for the very first
time, my sense is that you should not put too much focus
on trying to do it the very first time. I mean will you
be able to impress someone after taking your first
French lesson or the very first time you get in the
kitchen
or drive a car. There is always a
learning curve for sex and little by little you will
get better at it. You will discover your own body in
ways that you have not and you will also learn more
about your partner's body and his
sex
preferences. In other words,
sex gets
better over time. I know this because being married
for almost 10 years now,
intimacy has gotten only better as my wife and I
know so much more about each other.
In any case, just to impress him the very first time, be
open-minded and use all your body. Every
part of the body can be turned into a pleasure organ
if used
the right way.
So just relax and have fun and
please do
write back -- I am curious to know how it went and
maybe I can give more tips on how to do better the
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