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Natasha
writes, "I read your tips on
How to
Find a Husband. I think it is good, but I have already
done that and now I would like to read a how-to guide to
actually getting married. I'll explain...So you
find the right guy, then what? How should I
conduct myself, how much of myself should I give? Keeping
in mind that I'm so excited to have found him, but now I
don't want to screw it up. How do I avoid screwing it up
until he
asks me to marry him?" (Related:
Should women propose to men) I think you
have completed the important first step, and if you can
just be yourself, everything should work out fine.
However, the #1 problem women face these days is
lack of commitment from men - and more specifically a
desire to get married. While it is relatively easy to
find a man, the challenge is to convince him to tie
the knot. Thus, from now on your goal has to be to make
him
commit to you forever by marrying you.
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 While
you can never force or trap anyone (and if you do that,
the
marriage will probably be a failure), you should never
forget your mission - marriage. That is why it is
important for you to throw casual hints about wedding (Wedding
beauty) and
family whenever you can, of course, without becoming
obnoxious and turning him away. And while you are doing
that, you must give your best to the relationship. Only
when you do your best, will a man see the
life
partner in you.
Having
said that, don't go crazy with this exercise
either. Set a mental time in your mind and if he
does not take the steps towards a marriage, you
may want to
dump this commitment phobic man. For instance,
do your best for six months, and if the guy simply
wants to keep postponing or gives evasive answers,
you will get an idea about his intentions - unless
he has a genuine excuse, he does not want to
shoulder the
responsibilities of a marriage and family.
Hopefully,
however, he will get the
engagement ring for you before that. Or
you could get as lucky as
Pamela Anderson whose spouse Kid Rock wedded her
four times.
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