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I was
browsing your site and ran across this article on
Should Love Always Be Mutual, but I just had to
respond. What I write may sound a bit harsh but here it
goes. This 20 year old girl has some issues that
she needs to see a psychologist about. She has low self
esteem. No girl with any type of gumption about herself
would allow herself to be dogged out by a man the way
this man is dogging her out. He has no respect for her
because she has none for herself. Instead of
worrying about if love is mutual, she should be asking
herself this question: why don't I love myself? Because
if she loved herself, she wouldn't allow herself to be
disrespected like this.
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As I was reading this, I was
shaking my head and thinking, damn, this girl
really hates herself. This is why these
older men such as this 43 year old guy date
young girls like her. They know they can
manipulate them like pawns on a chess board.
These girls lack the sense and emotional
maturity to tell these guys where to get off. |
Most times when you see
men way older than the woman like in this scenario,
they are just looking for a 'little
girl' that they can
play games with and get over on because they know
these girls (and I say girls because they aren't
emotionally mature enough to be called women yet), lack
the maturity to recognize inappropriate behavior and to
call these guys on it. They'll put up with trifling
behavior such as this and keep on hanging in there. They
won't put the guy in check. A
mature woman who had her head together would have
kicked this guy to the curb long ago. Who would want his
love? I certainly wouldn't because he doesn't 'show'
that he knows
what
love is. This girl must be 'sex whipped.'
She needs to
grow up and
get some
self esteem.
Men will never love a woman who allows herself to be
treated like the object that you wipe your feet on when
you come through the door and really can you blame them?
Would you
love someone like that? This
man met her when she was practically a baby at age
17.
What the heck was this
guy at 40 doing messing around with a minor? He
should be in
jail,
that's right, that tells you he is up to no good. She
fell in
love with him. What could she possibly know about
love at 17? I don't mean to be condescending but
where were her parents to guide her? Was she
looking for a father figure? |
