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While Japan
is one of the most restrictive societies in the world,
it does allow you a great deal of freedom in certain
respects. For instance, when we are
free to party, we have a lot of freedom. Secondly,
Japanese society does not have the hang-ups as in
other countries with regards to
nudity. We have always taken
baths in public and are quiet comfortable with
looking at each other without making a big deal about
it.
Rei has been particularly curious about
my
sex life which she thinks sizzles. I did inform her
that I do have
sex as
often as most people do – few times a week,
actually. She immediately started wondering
how I find
partners. I don't have a
steady
boyfriend but I do have one guy that I like a lot
and we do spend quite a bit of time together. Let me
clarify that I
make love mostly with my boyfriend. Only rarely
will I
make love to someone else if he is really
cute and
sexy. Most
girls in Japan start to be
sexually active in high school and most of us have
regular
sex at my age. Yes, I have had
one night
stands and I don't mind them if it is a
man
who is really hot. And NO NO I don't
sleep with a new man every time. I am a decent girl
you know.
Rei's
sex life
As Rei tells me, she has a
boyfriend who lives in
Hong Kong. That does not give her many chances to
be with him. Of course Rei has ideas that might make us
laugh in Japan – for instance, she thinks that
sex
will make her look more mature. Since she is a
model
she has to make sure that her body stays ‘fresh’ and
also that
men
expect their brides to be virgins. I told Rei, “I
think that you are a bit traditional and that is OK.
You are still young and have a long
life to enjoy yourself; so until you feel
comfortable with it, it is fine to
be a
virgin. And I don't think that sex makes you mature
or anything like that but it does give you a different
perspective on life and tells you a lot more about
love, life, and men”.
Telling her all this has made Rei even
more curious about me and
life in Japan, especially for
women at
my age. She has heard that Japan has a lot of
shibari clubs, which is true, but it is not
something that we do all the time. May be once in a
while!
Now the next
question from Rei is even more interesting, “Have you
ever
seduced someone before? What is your technique?” I
will probably answer that question in my subsequent
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