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Khalid
writes, "My
best
friend's
sister
is married with two daughters, 32, and is very
sexy woman. I am married with two sons and 33 years
old. Years ago she
flirted with me a couple of times and hinted that
she likes me and would like to
make out with me. As a family friend of theirs, I
get to see her almost every week. She also occasionally
reaches out to me for help with her academic projects.
Therefore, sometimes I have this chance to be around her
alone. While I am with her, though, there are always
other family members in the house. I have no clue if she
is thinking only about the project or anything about me
too. My desires for her is as intense as it could be. I
don't want to make a fool of myself. I know the
situation is very delicate but she is
irresistible. The way the
women
grow up in our Islamic culture I am sure even if she
desired the same thing she would not tell me anything
directly. The only option is to
seduce her but I haven't have a clue how to do it.
Any
advice to seduce her? What should I do? I have to
think outside of the box because we are both from a very
conservative culture and
touching and hugging are not at all acceptable
between a man and woman. On top of that if our families
find out anything about us then we both will be doomed."
I
think you should realize that this is like playing with
fire. You can get seriously burned, make a fool of
yourself, and destroy your reputation among several
families. I am told that in some cases, crimes have
happened. In several Muslim countries,
adultery is punishable by stoning to death.
Having said that,
adultery
is fairly common; it is just hidden and everyone
pretends that it does not exist.
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How about any hints of her
emotions? Have you ever felt that she feels
the same way as you do? She may have completely
forgotten about her
flirting with you now that she is a
wife and mother and may even find it a bad
idea considering the risks and morality issues. |
 If her
body language says that she has feelings for you,
then you have hope for
seduction. So next 2-3 times that you see her,
notice her behavior and actions. A person's eyes and
hands can tell a lot more than their mouth.
One thing that you can do is to tell her indirectly that
you like her and ask her if she feels the same way. If
she feels about you the way you feel, then, women are
very good at making things happen. However, if she tells
you
that nothing is possible and she is married to someone
else, then, you should not risk even touching her
inappropriately.
Be careful; this is very delicate situation. If you
don't have the privacy and her complete cooperation,
then forget about it.
Relationship with a married man or woman only works
when the two are fairly independent and have privacy.
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