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Andrea
writes, "I am in
high school and two months ago my BF broke up with
me. I am really
depressed
and unable
to concentrate on anything. I
want him
back in my life. He gave me the reason that someone
in our school is telling everything to his
parents
and they do not approve of our relationship. He also
says that right now it is not the age to go against our
parents.
We had been together for two and a half years. He says
he loves me but cannot
come back to me. All my friends suggest me to
leave him
and move on. I am in a big dilemma as to what to do
now. I really
want him back in my life. It's not at all easy to
forget
someone who was your
soulmate for so long. For me this is really very
painful. Sometimes I feel that he still loves me a lot
and sometimes I feel that he has no
feelings
for me now. Please suggest me as to what to do so as to
get him
back in my life and that too in the same way as he
used to be before
breakup. I wanna be with him only. I love him a lot.
I need someone to help me regarding our
patch up again."
I can
totally understand why you are
heartbroken. However, here are a few things to
consider.
Since you both are not adults yet, it
may be impossible for your boyfriend to do much without
his parents' permission. If his parents oppose this
friendship, he does not have much choice till he is
financially independent. What that means is that if
your
love for each other is real, then you can be
together as soon as he can tell his parents to get lost.
You cannot force anyone to
love you or come back to you. If
he loves as much as
you think he does, then just
relax. Some day you can still be together but as
long as you are in school, you must both obey what your
parents tell you (and for all we know, since they have
more wisdom than you, you might be
dating a loser).
Since it seems unlikely that you two can be together
right now, it is better for you
date a guy who is not totally controlled by his
parents and has some freedom to
pick his
friends. Chances are that you will
find love again and
everything will be alright. In any case, you will always
have the possibility that this guy will come back to you
some day. If not, at least, during the time you will
have an opportunity to check out what else is out there
in the world.
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