and advice on choosing a bra for different situations
where, how to wear or not wear a bra......By
have been discussing
how to choose the right bra for each
situation. We have already discussed when
and where to wear or not wear a bra and how to deal with
a few embarrassing situation.
I am still at a loss to understand why men apparently
like to see us.
Is it because they think that we are wilder women? I have also
wondered what other girls think of us in that situation?
We are highly voyeuristic in America. Don't you know why we stop and take a look at every
accident on the highway and watch so much of reality TV? We
like to know what others are thinking, and thus we pay so much
attention to women. And some naive men might even think
that if a woman talking to them has them it is because of
how attractive they are. Now
with women, things are simpler. Several women have told us that
they have the same problem and thus tend to be more understanding
of the problem. Though some conservative women say that it is
clearly indecent and it is because the bras these days are not
designed to do their job - they are simply cute clothing and do a
terrible job of keeping the bust hidden from others in public
places. (Related article: Role
of lingerie for a couple)
So if an average woman walks in the mall dressed
normally but then you realize that hers are erect.
How did this happen in just a minute?
Should she be embarrassed?
Dose she even know it?
your question about an average woman - well,
the fact of the matter is that you see this so often that most of
us do not pay enough attention any more - remember the days when
women would even try to hide the fact that they had a bra on. Then
things changed and it became commonplace to 'show' your bra (let
the straps peek through tank tops or spaghetti strap dresses, or
wear a dark colored bra under a light colored
top, or as is common
in Latin America - wear a see through
blouse, etc.). In recent
years, it is no longer a big deal to even give a peek at your
thong either (the tops are rather short these days and the pants are
rather low so when
someone bends or is just careless, everyone
gets a peek at the underwear). In
showing the bra straps (or even the top of your panties
through those hip hugging low-rise pants) is almost a fashion statement
these days and other than arousing a bit of curiosity we are all
used to knowing exactly what underwear someone is wearing.
However, remember that showing bra strap or top of the panties
does signal lack of attention to detail when dressing (this can
make some people think of you as shoddy) or encourage others to
think of you as 'bold'.
Passion bra and thong)
back to your question, women have told us that unless they are in
front of a mirror, they can miss their own show. No
wonder they cannot do anything about it and by the time it is
known to them (for example because they realize everyone is
looking), it may be too late. Do they get embarrassed? Most of
them say 'yes' and it even determines what they will wear where and
when and what bra will go with what blouse and if they will go braless. Very few women have
told us that they do not care about it since it is rather
embarrassing in most cases.
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Kathyrne: I do not
necessarily have a question but want to share my
experiences. I have completely stopped wearing
work with 95 men and four women in a government office in
Virginia. I think everyone knows I don't wear a bra. I
think it may have been a little shocking at first, but now it is
the norm. My boss frequently tells me how nice I look.
I was really afraid when I first started, but it seems to be
just an everyday thing now. I wear the same things I wore
before I stopped wearing the bra. Rarely do I wear a
camisole. Sure, maybe I do push it sometimes just to see how
far I can go, but no one has ever said anything derogatory to me
about it. I think a lot of women worry too much. They
need to just try it and see what happens. Don't be afraid or
ashamed. Be proud of yourself and let others admire you.
They will love it.
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