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Carlos
writes, "I am 30,
single, and finishing my
college education. All my past
relationships were with older women (3-10 years
older), and they were, in most of the cases, very nice.
But it did not fill me, because they sometimes
treated me like their lost son or something like that. I
don't want this, it makes me
feel worthless, and when I tried to talk about that,
they don't listen because, well... it's a kid talking
after all; isn't it? In fact, I want to be with a
girl younger, and secretly I want to be protective
and to care of her, but when I tried, it has failed. I
don't know why (me? she? bad luck? bad timing?). I
think I'm not ugly, I have a career usually well
regarded, I'm educated and good reader, have a sense of
humor, and I'm smart. Could it be that it has not
worked because I'm still a
student? Besides, people usually think I'm
younger
(they think I'm 24-27). May I be sending the wrong
message? And if I'm doing that... what can I do to
correct that? I have the feeling that the answer is so
obvious, but for some reason I cannot see it."
It
seems that you have not tried enough yet with
younger girls and that is why it could be just bad
timing or your difficulty in
dealing with a younger woman after
dating only older women.
This is what I would suggest.
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