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One of
the biggest
challenges women facing while dating is to get
commitment from a man. Cathy has been
dating
a man for over six months but their relationship has
not gone too far since he never showed any desire to
take the relationship to the next level. They
enjoyed each others company but never reached a point to
make their relationship more official.
She says, "For
Valentines Day I thought it would be nice for us to get
together and spend some quality time. I even thought that he
might
make a stronger commitment to me. After showing his
reluctance to even
go
on a date with me, I gave up, but at the last minute he
showed up at my place. We had a pleasant evening as we both do
like each other. We talked for hours about family,
personality, our zodiac signs, etc. He confided he
told his friends that he finds me
sweet.
I asked him
Does he think he takes care of my needs, and he said no,
and not like he would like to. When he asked me if I was happy
he came, I told him, yes, but I think my frustration with his
cavalier attitude showed. He also noticed it. Do you think I
am wasting my time with this man? Will I ever be able to have
a
real relationship with this man?" |