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I am attracted only to cougars

Is this normal?  Should I worry?

Summary:  Below is the case of a man who is doubting as if something is wrong with him just because he is attracted only to mature women and has no interest in girls his age or younger.  I tell him that this is normal and he should continue to date the type of women he is attracted to.
Andy writes, "I am a 25 year old male. My challenge is that I am only turned on by older women. The first girl I loved was a year older than me. I was only 16 then. Then there was Samantha; when I was 17 she was 22. Now the lady I seem to get along with at work is 32 years old. But I also like this one girl called Ingrid, who is 31. My closest friends are all above 30. I am a little worried. Why am I not attracted to girls my age and why do I have friends who are much older than me? Will all this create any problems in my relationships and marriage?"

I do not think there is anything wrong with you. We all have our preferences and choices and in your case it is women older than you. There is a strong likelihood that you are more mature for your age and you find the connection stronger with women older than you rather than same age as yours. I see no reason for you to get too bogged down with a woman's age. Choose a girl based on your emotional connection and compatibility with her rather than age and hopefully everything will work out well. I hear from dozens of couples each month who are perfectly happy even though they have huge age gaps.
 

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