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Mark
writes, "I
love a certain girl and really
wish we
can be in a relationship. I haven't yet talked to
her about this but I have already taken the first
important step, we
talked on
phone, she also agreed to
go out for
a drink when I request. I am worried that there is
another guy doing the same and she has already
gone out on a date with him. I am m scared this guy
has already made more progress with her than me. What
should I do?"
Dating is a
competitive game
As you can understand, any
girl will date more than one guy and if an
attractive man asks her out, it would be naive of
you to expect that she will say no. Of course, you
have to
develop your own dating strategy with her and do the
hard work to win her heart.
The best way to fight a competitor is to outperform him.
Remember that
girls
like attention and if you can
pay more attention to her than your competitor she
will recognize that you love her even more. So make sure
that you
stay in touch with her regularly, but more
importantly,
send her small gifts, and when she goes out with you
for
drinks, don't just bring her to some ordinary
bar,
but take her to a
fine restaurant. |
