Roseanne
writes, "Weird things have been happening to me lately
and you are going to be shocked. Yesterday my so-called
boyfriend (that I
broke up with a month ago because his
mother did not like us
dating) came to my apartment at
around 11:30 at night. We chatted actually and told each
other what we hated about each other and when it was my
turn to tell him what he did the guy was all so curious
and we started arguing and it ended up in hush manner.
He told me to get out of his
car and pushed me
aggressively. The next thing I know I was crying
telling him that I hated him so many times. He was
like there are so many horrible things that are
happening in his life that he can't tell me and that he
even wanted to commit
suicide over the weekend.
Then he was crying and asked me
what kind of a man I
wanted and I told him what I wanted and he said things
will be OK and everything will work out.
Then I asked him if this is what he wants all the
tears
and fighting for and that when is it going to end.
All he said was before the end of the week and off he
went. So tell me what's wrong with him."
Oh
God, this is so weird. Based on what you have told me,
it seems that there is
something going on in his family.
He is probably having some
issues with his parents.
My advice to you would be lie low and avoid contact with
him as much as possible. If he comes home, ask him to
leave. The
talk of suicide is probably just his way to
gain sympathy from you.
Since you hardly know anything and have broken up with
him, it is best to stay away from the mess. If he
commits suicide or does something else that is equally
stupid, I don't think you want to deal with all the
drama that will follow. As a
former girlfriend the
authorities and family members might ask you to help
putting unnecessary
emotional strain on you. Basically
it is his family problem and you have nothing to do with
it -- the more you stay out of it the better it is.
After all you are no longer in a relationship.
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