| Summary: When a woman
marries a man, while she expects him to change and get
old, she does not plan for him to change so radically
that he stops taking care of his health and completely
gives up on life. If his appearance deteriorates
to a level that she is no longer physically attracted to
him and he refuses to do anything about his fitness
level, she has a right to leave him. Read below
the case of an unhappy wife whose husband fits this
description and I advise how to leave him and find
another charming, good looking man.
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| Candy
writes, "My husband
has gotten fat. He doesn't even iron his clothes. I
have tried talking to him but
he doesn't listen. I have asked him to please stop
putting his mother over me. He simply doesn't
listen.
I am not happy and am tired of pretending to be when
other people are around. I have even started looking
into
dating other people outside the area we live in just
for
companionship.
My life has no fun, no
romance, nothing. Truth is, I am tired and
want to have a happy life and it is just not
happening here. He doesn't
manage money and I am always
catching up with the bills. I just want to be happy
and I feel that
happiness isn't gonna be with him. Do I have any
hope?" |
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I am sorry
to hear what you are going through. I can imagine how
frustrated you
are being stuck with a man who simply does not care
about anything. I wonder if he not already was, he may be
turning into a
loser.
The first
thing that I would like you to do is to
make sure
that he is not depressed or has any other medical
conditions. In that case, your responsibility is to get him
the medical attention he needs.
If he is
perfectly healthy and is engaging in this careless
behavior because he no longer cares about you, his
marriage,
family finances, appearance, etc., then it is time not
to let him dictate your future. Obviously, you should give
him one final chance to change and
save his marriage, and if he refuses to take that
opportunity, you may consider
starting over. It is not easy to start over but when
that is the only option I am sure you will be able to pull
all your strengths and do it. |
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| Related:
What should
I do if my wife has become fat
I am not attracted to my boyfriend |
