| Maureen
writes, "I
am a virgin and have been
dating a man for 2 years but we have
put our
relationship on hold due to serious differences in
what we want out of this relationship. He is
generally a
good man but he has never
made a
move on me. We have been
somewhat intimate but he always chickens out when
the time for
intercourse comes. Time has just passed by and here
I am. I thought about
his being
gay, and believe it or not since he is so good
looking, a lot of people think he is too, but he just
doesn't give off that vibe, and my
gaydar
is pretty good. I know he has had
serious relationships, but
if he were
truly gay, I don't think he could have looked at me
the way he did, or admit to being
in
love with me. I don't know, I mean, people could say
that about me since I rarely
go on dates, am currently single, and I'm
not gay."
I am no
expert on gays, but with all the politicians and
pastors who are supposedly happily married to women
and even have kids -- some of them
make a living attacking gays every day -- and then
you find out that
they are gay, I would not be surprised that this guy
is. I cannot imagine why a normal guy would refuse to
make love to a sweet, charming, attractive girl who is
willing and ready. I bet you that many
men
must fantasize about you all the time. What is
possible is that he is either in denial or refusing to
accept it and tries to do the best he can to come across
as a heterosexual. |
