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Rodney
writes, "I'm not a very
attractive guy. I have
acne and am
overweight, but I need to find someone, or at least
try. I'm into
heavy metal music and a lot of
girls think I'm weird. It is very hard to find
someone and I'm very
afraid to be cheated on. I don't mind if she talks
to other guys. I don't know what to do."
Let us deal with one issue at a time.
For
treatment of acne, you can try a
laser or ask a doctor to prescribe
Accutane.
If you are
overweight, try my tips on
losing weight while having fun.
Fear of being cheated on by a woman is
irrational
Regarding your
fear of being cheated on, the problem is that you
just have a
fear. We all do and each one of us have our
fears that we need to deal with. I have
fear of drowning, for example, and I try to deal
with it by trying to be close to water as much as
possible. I have conquered it somewhat. Trust me, most
women do not cheat. And definitely not when their
man gives them what any woman deserves. So living in
fear is probably a bad idea. It is best if you just
leave her alone and not worry about it -- chances are
that if she
wants to cheat, no matter what you do, she will. So
it is best just to
trust
her and be a
good man to her.
Regarding
finding the right girl, yes, not all women will like
a guy like you. The way not all women like
computer
geeks or
doctors or
hip hop dancers. You need to
find women that are into heavy metal music by being
in places where such
women hang out, both in
concerts and
bars
and of course, in online forums and
dating
websites. |
