I am even afraid of leaving him because of his temper
Summary: Read below the
case of a woman who is terrified of her husband and his
violent temper that she is even scared of leaving him to
start a new life. I give several tips below on
how
to deal with such an unstable man and get out of the
marriage without going crazy.
Brittany
writes, "I have been with my husband for about
one year. At first everything was fine. But then
I found out
he likes to control me, we had some
arguments, he flipped when I told him he was
a very
dominant man. I want to
leave him and I don't know how to do it. I
am getting my things together hoping he won't
notice me taking things out of the house. He is
verbally abusive and also has
ED (for which he won't even take any
medication like Viagra). I actually don't
want him to even
make love to me because there is no love
left for him inside me. I just
want to leave. I know he will be mad though!
Please help me."
Speak to a few family members in confidence who won't
open their mouths but will be available to help you out
as you go through the long and painful
divorce process.
If you
do not work, make sure that you
have enough money to get by. Think through how you will
survive for a while. Where will you live? If you need to
hang in there for a few more months to make sure that you
are
financially solid, then the suffering may be worth it.
When the timing is right, there is no need to
confront him or to tell him anything.
Quietly leave
and then let the
attorney
take care of everything else including letting him know and
getting a fair share after divorce. I am assuming that
you do not have kids together and since the marriage is just
one year old, it is OK to simply not deal with him, cry,
create drama, and make it painful for everyone. It is best
to
move on quietly and let him do that too.
