Now we have learned that middle-aged women, even in rural America, are starting to have younger men as their lovers for the same reasons as men do.  There are several reasons why both men and women get attracted to someone older (and more mature) than them. Several men have indicated that from time to time they may get attracted to a younger woman, but that does not diminish the joy of making love to a mature, well experienced woman. Older women also tend to be more stable emotionally and bring mutual sense of pleasure to the relationship.

Does having an older lover create problems? A 27 year old woman says, "I recently became involved with a man 18 years older than me, and it is the most intense relationship that I have ever been in! I have always liked older men, but this is the largest age difference for me yet...and I love it! It is a whole new experience making love to someone who is more interested in your pleasure than their own...makes me want to do more for him too."  (Related:  Right age for dating someone younger)

Most women, whatever their age, prefer an older man in the bedroom. Younger men may look cute but older men have the experience to satisfy their partner, basically because older men have learned to slow down. It is generally believed that younger men only want to please themselves. A mature woman advises, "Don't lose your attention for a women in her 40s because she also has learned how to slow it down. They have become more comfortable with their bodies, which allows for better experience in the bedroom. Also the belief that women in their 40s are less active in the bed is BS."  (Related article:  40s are the new 30s)

Another lady, who is now happily married to someone her own age, tells us about her past romance. She said, "To be honest when I was 23, the guy I was seeing at the time was 46 and I loved every minute of it. I used to greatly appreciate the fact that an older man was more interested in you than his own pleasure. The friendship, the attention, and the maturity of an older man were a treasure to me. I have a sister and many cousins who are married to older men and it works out just fine."

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