After
hearing from dozens of women who were having problems getting
aroused by their partners, we decided to dig a little deeper
into what was going on. We
conducted an online survey and then organized a group of a dozen
women to discuss and validate our findings.
We are discussing these findings in a series of articles
on MYNIPPON and here we will discuss something that almost all
men completely ignore but one out of every two women seems to
care about significantly. And
the issue is ‘bedroom attire’ for men.
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So
much attention has been paid to lingerie for
women, that we
complete forgot the men. Yes,
we know that men are far more visual than women and we are more
emotional than men. But it is simply not true that we can get aroused simply
because we like the guy or are too emotional about all the
wonderful things that he does for us.
Of course, a physically fit guy is a big attraction to us, but it is equally
important how that masculine body is packaged.
So we are talking about how he shows up in the bedroom.
John in Philadelphia knows what I am talking about. When I
interviewed him, he answered, "Too often men are told to put aside their
appearance and bottle their desires to look attractive to women. We too like to feel that we are desirable much like a woman feels when wearing lingerie.
I wear thong underwear with some regularity and
thong swimwear when the occasion is right and enjoy the flattering looks and glances I receive."
(Related:
Men's
underwear) |
 It
is simply not acceptable for us women to see men walk into the
bedroom or slide in bed with a $5 T-shirt and boxers.
Women who would tolerate that are either all dead or have
yet to get a taste of what difference lingerie can make on
men.
Men are absolutely wrong to think that "size" is all
what women are after.
In fact, we found that most women did not care about it
at all. Did I say
that we are basically baskets of emotions floating on a sea of
charm? What we care
about most is the "experience." It includes all that is said and done and how.
That is
where the lingerie comes in.
It can make all the difference in a woman's
arousal, how
strong the climax is, and if we want to be in the bedroom with
him again.
Here
are the absolute NO’s:
- Cheap
T-shirts. Some
women do not mind high-quality cotton undershirts if well
coordinated with the overall attire
- Cheap
boxers
- Shorts
- Sweat
pants
Ideal
bedroom outfit for men
A
robe is a must for men. Not
only does it allow a man to create a sense of mystery about what
is inside, it also makes him look elegant and stylish.
Plus, it tells us that regardless of how he sleeps when
he is alone, he has taken care to dress for us.
Silk
boxers are fine for most occasions, particularly for those men
who do not have the best bodies to display.
While prints are fine, it is much better to stick to
solid colors (Colorful
underwear for men). For
special occasions, it is not a bad idea to buy something that is
appropriate, e.g. hearts for an anniversary or around
Valentine’s Day.
If
you have a shapely body, and that means no fat hanging off anywhere, you are encouraged to try something more risqué. Be
aware of the occasion and choose accordingly.
If you want to give a surprise or be funny in the bedroom, nothing is better than the
underwear revealed once the robe
is gone. It is a
good way to release the tension, give us some time to get used
to you, and let the juices flow.
The rule of thumb to use is how toned your body is when
determining how much to expose.
In order of increasing levels of risqué, I would suggest
boxers for those out of shape, while briefs for those somewhere
in between, and either a thong or
pouch for
those men who are in perfect shape and can really feel proud of
showing off their buns.
Recommended
articles:
When couples wear thongs together Thongs
for men in public and on beach Men
proud to wear thongs
How to disclose that a man wears women's underwear
Men in skirt
Confessions of men in
panties
I like to wear panties
David Beckham in underwear
Divorce feminine man
My girlfriend likes me
in panties |
