I don't trust men any more

What can I do to trust my boy friend?

Summary: When you get hurt over and over by men, you do lose trust in all men, even though, not all men are the same. Read below the story of a girl who is struggling with trust issues.

Martha writes, "I've been hurt so many times that I end up not trusting the man I have right now, even though I love him dearly. I don't trust him at all. I am scared that he will hurt me like others did before."

The way you feel is very natural. We are nothing but a sum of our experiences.

Having said that, I hope you will agree with me that not snakes are poisonous nor all weeds are bad nor all rich women are beautiful. Yes, there is no guarantee that your current boyfriend is perfect and will do nothing wrong, but give him a chance.

I also want to make another point. Look inside yourself and ask if there is something wrong with the men that you chose. Maybe it is the type of men that you like or pick that is the problem. I know women who like these cute, charming men because of their looks and personalities but many of these men have nothing else to offer. In the end they simply break your heart because they have now been able to seduce yet another naive girl.

Secondly, are you over-sensitive? What might seem as completely normal behavior for many women might seem to you as hurtful. If that is the case, then you may need to work on your attitude as well.

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