| Summary: It is indeed a
fact that when married people have extramarital affairs
with other married or single people in some cases it may
result in a relationship and/or marriage but in most
cases it simply leads to bitterness, broken
hearts/homes/marriages, and is generally a problem for
everyone. Read below how a married woman ended up
broken hearted after heartlessly dumped by her secret
lover. |
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Maggie,
a
married woman in relationship with a married man,
noticed that her boyfriend has changed since he returned
after completing a project in
Europe
for 3 months. She writes, "He hardly calls me now and we
rarely
go out on a date. During last three months, I have
seen him only twice. Today he called to say that there's
nothing between us anymore. Can you tell me what is he
trying to do? When I ask him when are we meeting,
always the same old answer that he is very busy with his
family problems. I need your advice desperately."
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A few things
could have happened when he was
working
overseas. Maybe it gave him an opportunity to think
clearly and he has concluded that it is impossible for him
to have two
women in his life. And since
divorcing his wife and marrying you is not practical (he
would have done so by now if that were feasible), it is best
for him to leave you and
focus on his marriage and family.
I know it
sounds incredible and painful but men can be like that. In
one instance they are
deep in
love and the next instance they do not even want to look
at your face.
Is this relationship over?
Based on what
you are describing, it seems that he is just hoping that you
will give up and leave him alone. I know he
broke your heart, but if you consider me as a friend,
listen to my advice: save all the
sweet
memories of your relationship with him so far and leave
him alone. It will hurt for a while but I am confident that
you can recover because we all do, even from
deaths of
loved ones. I know you do not have much of a
relationship with your husband and it will
feel very lonely for a while, but if you spend time with
family and friends, you can
move on with a smile.
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