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Kimberley
was
dating a man who just did not
treat her right. She
ended the relationship with him but because they work in
the same company, it has been
impossible to completely cut the cord. She writes,
"Sometimes he comes into my office looking for supplies,
which he never finds, so I am forced to have
interaction with him. I took the job with him, because
he said it felt right that I was in the same building as
him and he knows where I am. Of course I
thought that would mean we would be together, but in
reality he kept up the bad behavior. I try my best to
ignore him when he comes in, but of course that
enrages him, and I usually end up with a sarcastic
text
message about my supposed unprofessionalism. I am in the
process of
looking for a new job. I just
hope one day he realizes I was the
best girl he could
have had, I did anything and everything for him, and got
nothing in return."
Obnoxious men are to be avoided at all times
I support your decision to
quit this job. In the meantime,
considering how
bleak the job market is right now, just
deal with him as you with any other necessary evil, like
those
idiots that cut you off in a line or
on the highway. Just
be patient while he
harasses you
because you now know that it is not forever and in your
mind you have already
moved on.
And should you really care what he thinks of you after
you are gone? You shouldn't because if he had the sense
what a gem of a person you are he would not
treat you this way. I doubt if he would ever realize
this because in his mind, everything is wrong with you
and everything is right with him. |
