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Nanette
writes, "I am in a
relationship with this guy that I love so much but
the problem is he doesn't know
how to
show me that he loves me. He said
he loves
me but I am always doubting him, which is not a good
thing in a relationship. I just can't help feeling this
way. Will he take advantage of my love to him since he
is sure that I love him?"
Love is in the heart, not in the
actions
As
you can probably imagine, each person is different. Some
people are more
open with
their communication style while others are
shy or
reserved or even
unable to
truly share their emotions. And I know a lot of
men who
talk a great deal about how much they love a woman
but are basically
lying to
get sex out of her or just to make her feel better.
I also know very
committed,
faithful men who love their wives but rarely tell
her so.
So if this guy is not as
warm and loving as you would like him to be, but in
reality does love you, I think that there is nothing to
worry. However, since you are only dating him at this
stage and he is not really the
man
that you dream of, maybe you should
leave him
and try to find someone who is much closer to your
wishes.
Can a woman be insecure not to feel
the love?
Finally, have you considered the possibility that the
problem is not him but you. Are you an
insecure woman? Do you have
low self esteem? Do you doubt your own
self worth that you may not
deserve this man? If so, then you need to
work on your self esteem. I feel that you may simply
be projecting your own
insecurities on him. It is pointless to doubt his
intentions when he has given you no reason so far. |
