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Emily
writes, "I like this
shy guy and don't know how to talk to him or whether
or not he is
interested
in me. I keep noticing that we keep a close eye on
one another when we seem to
hang out
at the same clubs, and lately he would try and stand
next to me or walk by me so that I would notice him, but
he wouldn't say a word. Am I imagining things, or is
this sign of a
shy man
liking me? HELP!"
Why men do
not approach girls some times?
Based on what you have described, it
is obvious he is
very shy or there is something about you that is
intimidating him (for instance, if you are always with
friends, or even worse with
guy friends,
men
are reluctant to approach you).
Next time, and I am assuming you are
not shy,
give him a
big
smile and try to talk to him. Be direct and
ask him to
have a drink with you (somehow I am a big fan of
empowered women -- ones who go
get the guy they like if he doesn't come on his own
her way). If he is not interested, you will find out.
For all we know
he could be
gay or
married or
attracted
to someone else. And if he is
as
attracted as you are, you both will laugh some day
about it.
It is amazing how many women do not realize that
men are so afraid of rejection that they often miss
out on women, and I consider it a woman's responsibility
to take charge when she sees clear signs that a
man is not approaching her even when he is clearly
interested. |
