Make a man want sex

Suggestions for women in sexless marriages

I see you have thought through this and tried a whole bunch of things. Let me ask you if you have thought and analyzed two other possibilities:

• He is having an affair. Men who are emotionally engaged with someone else and have sex with that woman, feel no desire to have sex with their wives.
• He is gay or contemplating/exploring gay sex or is very confused about his sexual orientation.

I know you have thought about the medical reasons (depression, stress, other illnesses) but a full medical checkup and discussion with a doctor is absolutely critical. The way you describe yourself, a man should be looking to have sex everyday. The last time when you had sex did you notice any problems with erection, ejaculation, etc.?

Is it a good idea to have an affair if husband refuses sex?

Before you go and have sex with another man, I want you to get to the bottom of this (making sure that he is not gay and not having an affair), and insist (use threat of leaving him and use his best friends, family members to make him do this) that he work with a doctor and therapist (we want to make sure that he is good medical state and if not, he can get professional help for this) and also if his job is destroying his marriage, it makes perfect sense for him to find another job or take a sabbatical to recharge.

This is an otherwise great husband and if you can get back the man that you married, wouldn't that be awesome? My suggestion would be not to have sex with your online friend right now regardless of how desperate you feel for sex.

Regarding maintaining your sanity in the meantime, many of my readers have found, as you are already feeling yourself, trying sex over the phone or through a webcam (make sure that he can be trusted and is not some creep who will put your sex tape online -- webcam video can be recorded by someone with a bit of technical knowledge) with this online friend of yours. Also, many of my readers find that nothing works better than a sex toy; always safe, discreet, faithful, reliable, and can go on forever till you turn it off.

Once you have exhausted all options, then, either you should leave him (you are financially independent and a sexless marriage is miserable) because this platonic marriage makes no sense for you since you don't have children together, and if that is not an option for some reason, then, you should insist on an open marriage since you have given him the chance to make things right.

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