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Ellen
writes, "I met the
man of my dreams (literally). From his
personality to his
looks -- I couldn't have asked for anything
more. While we were
dating I was also
suffering from depression because of my
mother dying, my
dog
died (neither of which he showed much remorse
for but he had also just lost his
dad, so I can accept that). I was so mean, I
threw him out of my place too many times, I
was rude, but he was also very ungrateful. I
would literally
bathe him
after a long day at work,
pamper,
massage him, do his
laundry. He had never been generous but 3
weeks after we
broke up, he took me on my
dream weekend vacation, we got home and he
stayed with me for 7 days and then I got upset
about
my mother,
drank like a fool and acted really, really
dumb. And when I went to
kiss him, he pushed me off telling me has no
interest in me 'that way.' Well, he should have
figured that out before! Here's the problem: we
ignored each other for a week, and then when he
came over, it was like sitting next to a stone
cold brick. Everyone told me to just blow him
for a few weeks. I did and then he only
contacted me to accuse me of cruising around his
neighborhood and calling me names (he lives
an hour away, I have better things to do). Now,
we have been texting and he was short but nice.
One night I called, he hung up on me but called
back to apologize but now hasn't called in a
week. Shall I assume he'll never call? I've been
hospitalized 5 times since we met and only the
first time did he ever come visit me. He would
tell me he would 'try after the
gym' even when I was in the ICU. Please tell
me if there is a chance, what I can do (if
anything) to make us
happy again as a couple. How can people love
you one week and hate you the next?" |
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My
first reaction is that you both are very