do women stay in bad relationships?
woman can completely ruin her life by not doing anything to get
out of a dead-end relationship......By Imfwama Wotela
Women donít forget the good times of any relationship and they store the memories in their hearts. It is these memories that at times cause them to turn a
blind eye when a relationship turns sour. They hold on to these memories hoping things will get better or go back to the way things used to be. They have such strong faith and hope even in awful situations.Women are
groomed from childhood to
mothers, wives and to be responsible even for other peoples lives. Unfortunately, there is little or no
self-esteem, being single and content, and just being a total person.
The foundation of anything is important because that is what will sustain the Ďbuildingí or better still the individual. A weak foundation always causes problems later on in life. To fix a weak foundation you have to break down the building and start to rebuild. Reinforcement may be insufficient because it may only solve the problem temporarily. It is vital that one looks at how they are groomed into life. If you are groomed to know that for your life to be complete you
need to find a
man, just know you have it all wrong. When you donít find one you will begin to panic and go out there and get the wrong one.
Breakup for the first time)
What are some of the reasons that cause
women to stay in
- He will change.
- He pays my
- Am used to him and I know him better than
- He has infected me with an incurable
disease so who will want me now.
- I have a child or
children with him; let
me stay for their sake.
- I canít feed the kids, care for them
nor educate them.
- I feel obligated because he has done so
much for me e.g. he bought me a
- Scared of starting another relationship
because the next guy might be worse than him.
- I still love him even if he hits me when
he loses his temper or comes home drunk.
- He says he still loves me and cares for
- I have already spent then prime of my
life with him and am older now, so let me just stay with
- If I leave, my family and friends will
talk and say I have failed to keep my
- I donít have a job as I left high
school to stay with him; where will I go?
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