Meeting Women Takes
Awareness and Preparation......By Mike Pilinski
Want to know a pivotal secret of the
and dating game? It's
that women plan, practice and prepare for this contest from a
very young age, and (surprise!) are flat-out *contemptuous* of
those men who refuse to play their expected role.
Sad but true. Women put countless hours into prepping for the
competition between the sexes... hair,
style and look,
clothing, etc. etc. They burn half their disposable income on just
about anything they can dream up that makes them more attractive to
men. Guys, on the other hand, typically put minimal
effort into making themselves attractive to women... other than
trying to stay within shouting distance of the latest clothing trend,
I suppose. For the most part, they choose to spend their time
involved in sports or hobbies. That's because most of us figure
attractiveness in men has to do mostly with good looks and money -- beyond that the workings of the female mind are totally
unfathomable. So why even waste time pondering it?
Except that this lack of knowledge eventually returns to bite us
square in the ass!
How? When we
attempt to PICK UP WOMEN -- *that's* when
our utter cluelessness becomes horribly apparent! Women
have been studying boys since they were
teenagers. While we're out
playing video games and practicing our foul shooting --they're getting together and debating flirting strategies with their
girlfriends, figuring out how to communicate to all the cute boys
language, etc. etc. In other words, they're actually
putting some *effort* into the process! They're learning how to
play the game of seduction from their own unique female perspective, and they are becoming BETTER at it every day.
Not only does our lack of knowledge put us at a distinct
disadvantage, it acts as a complete TURN-OFF to a lot of women. This is especially true of women who've REALLY
polished their skills to a high level. They hate guys who try to
fake their way through the meeting and seduction
they can smell a phony from far across a crowded room, trust
Can you see now why you might be having so much trouble
determining what women want from
guys? You can't be good at
something that you've put so little effort into becoming practiced
at! There's no shame in lacking any of these skills either. The
Art of Seduction does NOT come naturally to anyone -- we all
must strive to observe women and try to really understand how
they're reacting to our presentation of ourselves as men. And
then comes the hard part... we have to LEARN FROM THE FEEDBACK (mistakes!) and make the appropriate changes in
our behaviors to get the results we're after.
This is where a lot of guys goof up. Learn ? Change?
Blaaah! Because we're all fundamentally lazy by nature, we just want to
settle as quickly as possible on some kind of "move" that works
for us (at least once in a while) and then just WORK IT TO DEATH. I guess this beats practicing and modifying our
behaviors based upon what we see, feel and -- well... all that
other friggin' WORK!
Well, this approach might pan out okay guys who have great
natural attractors working for them... a handsome face, great
athletic body, the offbeat "artist's" personality or whatever -- but
there's a lot of shy, ordinary men who lack the natural ability to
meet women simply because they failed to develop any 'game'.
For *them*, the best route to success lies in learning how to take
on women in their own home court. And where's that?...
How to put a
relationship on hold?)
In the deepest recesses of the female subconscious.
How to approach a neighbor
the author: Mike Pilinski is the
author of "Without
Embarrassment: The Social Coward's
Totally Fearless Seduction System"... a unique method
of meeting girls that will have you making up for wasted time spent living in shy-guy hell from the very first moment
you test it out.