|
How
to get out of a bad relationship?
A
woman can completely ruin her life by not doing anything to get
out of a dead-end relationship
By Imfwama Wotela
I have
been discussing why women may be completing missing out on
the great opportunity that life offers by getting stuck in
bad relationships. I know that many of us know that we
are in the wrong relationship but we still continue to stay
in them. In my previous article, I pointed out a few reasons
why women stay in bad relationships. Now I am
going to discuss what women can do to get out of these
relationships.
Think
about the following ten points summarized:
- He is not the last man on this earth
and there is more to life than being stuck in a
dead-end relationship. (Related:
Breakup for the first time)
- Life goes on even if you are hurt.
- You can heal and have your
self
esteem rebuilt.
- You can dream again regardless of
your age, health status or number of kids.
- You can still go back to school and
get your confidence back.
- Yes, you can be
financially
independent and make it big on your own.
- Never make a ‘man’ your God –
he is only human like you.
- Yes, there are
men who respect women
and will treat them like a lady.
- Be concerned about your happiness and
what makes you feel like a total person.
- Remember the more time you take in
making that decision to get out the more time you will
lose and never will you get it back. It means you will
never know what you were capable of contributing to
the world.
In conclusion,
remember that you were created a unique and beautiful
individual both inside and outside. It does not matter where
you are coming from but what matters is where you are going to
be tomorrow. By that I mean if your background is poverty,
abuse, etc., just know that it will never determine where you
are going to be tomorrow as long as you will make up your mind
to do something about it. So you have a choice and the final
decision must come from you.
Related: How to
raise your self-esteem? Advice for women
Dysfunctional relationships
End a
useless relationship Rules
for relationships with men
|
