Advice about a man that does not pay attention to girlfriend

Kay writes, "I love a person, he love me but does not pay attention to me.  What to do?"

The way you describe to me it appears that this man does not love you because if you love someone you also pay all your attention to that person.  I think he tells you that he loves you because that is the only way to hold on to you.  In other words, you should simply tell him to get lost and find a man that will not only love you but also pay attention to you.

domain name & internet keyword registration confirmation

If you are a domain owner from time to time you will receive an email like below.  It will most likely come from China or Hong Kong and if you respond claiming that the domain word is your IP or trademark, they will then want you to register all kinds of combination of that domain.  so you do not even know if someone is actually trying to register that name.  It is best to ignore it.  Here is the email.


"We are Hong Kong network service company, limited, which is the domain name register center in Asia. we received a formal application from a company who is applying to register “domain or keywor” as their domain name and internet keyword on dec 25, 2008.since after our investigation we found that this word has been in use by your company, and this may involve your company name or trade mark, so we inform you in no time. if you consider these domain names and internet keyword are important to you and it is necessary to protect them by registering them first, contact us soon.



in order to avoid the law problems involved,we need to confirm with you first.if you consider these domain names are not important,please don't reply this email,we will cooperate with the third company

thanks for your co-operation and support.

Re: breast

Sandy writes, "I have read all your articles about small breasts but still I could'nt
find what I was looking for..I am nearly 18 and I have no breasts I
have been to get them checked out by my doctor and they said by 18 this
is how they will be it basically looks like I have no breasts this
really upsets me and plus I am quite a tall and meaty girl with a flat
chest.  Is there nothing at all that I can do? please help."
Hey Sandy


Thanks for writing.  If you are nearly 18 and have no breast tissue, then that is basically it.  You are more or less fully developed and your doctor is right.  The only solution for you is to have breast implants.


I know how it feels; I get emails like this almost daily but sadly the only reliable way to get breasts is through implants; everything else is just fraud.  I am not a big fan of padded bras but that is what some girls choose to do.  Other girls report a slight increase if they start birth control pills.

convincing love making

Sid writes to me, "The question should not be how to convince one to make love to you, but the discernment of when your mate is ready to receive you completely and without exterior influence. Any persuasion or personal reservation is in essence a ploy of self satisfaction and that undermines the making of what far too many make loose speak of "love", thus missing the ultimate goal."

Re: reducing breast size

On Sat, Dec 20, 2008 at 7:15 AM,  idongesit Udo wrote:

Dear lovely people,

I want to ask something about my breast.



My breast is very big and falling, pls can you please show me some guidelines to come out of this wahala? 
It disturbs me a lots. The clothes I am supposed to wear, but because of sagging and big breast I can't wear them. 
What pills or cream or medicine can help me to reduce the size of my breast, and to make it stand again! it is falling down...



Please contact me.  I love you!

Thanks for writing, and I wish there was a medicine or pill or cream to reduce the breast size or to make it perky.  Please do not waste your money on anything because it does not work.

You might see some improvement if you lose weight, but to get good results you will need cosmetic surgery for breast reduction and then a breast lift.