How to fight jealousy?

Lisa asks, "What is your game plan to fight jealousy? How to have guts to face something that makes me jealous?"

As you probably figured out, jealousy is a very destructive emotion and it hurts us more than the person that we are jealous of. In other words, a lot of pain and suffering. For what? Our own destruction?

The best way to fight it is to realize that jealousy hurts us and no one else. And would you do something just to hurt yourself? No.

If you tell me more about your situation I can give more direct advice on how to deal with it.