 Ray
shares his limited
experience
dating Japanese girls, and writes, "I have arrived
at the opinion that they
play
cat-and-mouse game non-stop. And that is all the
relationship is: one big cat-and-mouse game. If she
wins, which she usually does, she will think you are a
fool. If you win, she will not like you and you will
never see her again. What do you think?"
I have to agree with you but only in a very limited way
(yes, some
Japanese girls date a gaijin because they are
curious or just want to have fun -- but then you can
find girls like that almost anywhere) because as you
rightly said your experience is also rather limited. I
would not say that we can generalize this for all
Japanese women. The reasons
Japanese women date foreign men are complex and can
lead to a lot of problems but I also know many men who
had
beautiful relationships with them and some even
got
married and have
happy families. |
