While
breast
size has become larger to some extent during last two decades, a vast majority of
women continue to be almost flat-chested.
Thus, many women continue to ask
us what they can do about it while others give us tips on how they cope
with the situation. To
confirm what we heard from these women, we recently conducted a brief
project to find what the men wanted and what some women have done.
We
selected a group of men and then one by one we interviewed them.
We made sure that none of the men knew each other and they
represented sufficient diversity in terms of age, ethnic origin, and
income levels. (Related:
Teenagers with big breasts)
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When
we interviewed these men for about two hours each, what they told us is
that they are attracted to a woman in a variety of ways.
Of course, most men did mention that they looked at the
chest and
the size had some role to play in determining how much they were attracted
to a woman but it was only one of many things. No
man was able to clearly spell out if they simply liked large
breasts over
everything else. For example,
when we showed pictures of women with large
sagging breasts, they
were actually repulsed. Immediately
after, when we showed pictures of women with small perky
breasts, they
responded very positively and clearly indicated that they would prefer
going out with the latter woman.
(Related article: Taking
care of sagging breasts) |
Similarly,
when we showed photos of a woman plainly dressed but with
large
breasts and then
a woman with tiny chest dressed in
a stylish outfit, they chose the
latter. When further
probed, and after making them view photos and videos featuring women of
all shapes and sizes, men confessed that they liked women who are
attractive,
dress well, have a sense of style, and ones who seem to
take care of
themselves. (Related article: Breast
augmentation)
Our
study has shown that women with smaller chest can compete really well as they can follow the techniques below:
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Take
good care of your body.
Eat
healthy, exercise, and maintain a proportionate figure.
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Stand
straight and maintain a
good posture at all times.
Dress
well. Wear
fashionable
clothing. Men love to see
women who are dressed in
stylish
clothing. Remember
how
Felicity Huffman dressed at the Oscars?
Draw
attention to your chest – this may seem counterintuitive, but it
is true. There is all the more reason for women like you to do
it. DO NOT wear loose clothing to hide yourself –
on the other hand, wear
skin
tight blouses to show off what you have.
Let
them see through your top – or in other words,
wear a see-through dress and
show off your bra.
Stretch. If a woman stretches, it pulls an otherwise loose
shirt taut against her chest. Stretching is more
attractive.
Make
the bra
as an outerwear rather than as
underwear. Bra tops are ideal for wild parties and for those special
occasions (look at the style of
Susan Atwell in bra top).
Use
neckwear –
jewelry,
scarves, etc. – to draw attention to your
chest.
Wear
attractive clothing on top – attention will immediately be drawn to the
chest.
Use
a bra that peeks from your clothing.
Men are always drawn to attractive underwear.
For example, wear a bra with a contrasting color to the top, let the straps show
from a sleeveless dress, wear a
low-cut dress
(like
Ali Larter) or just leave a few
buttons or a
zipper on the top undone and let the bra
show.
It is the expectation of seeing more that attracts men.
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