Adam from Singapore writes that he is
30 years old and has been hoping to know a Japanese
girl. He tells me,
"I have always wanted a Japanese girl to be my life partner. It
is not easy to chat with a Japanese girl in Singapore, however. I
will like you to assist me to contact them in Singapore. The age is not an
issue to me as I have always though that Japanese woman are absolutely
beautiful." (Related article: How
do you find a great girlfriend?)
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I think it is wonderful that you know
what you want. Now let me help your quest. First, let me
tell you that you are very lucky that you live in this day in age.
Through the use of the internet, people who would have never met before
can now become acquainted even though they live thousands of miles apart.
They can correspond with ease by using e-mail and VOIP
phones and they can
ask all sorts of questions of each other before spending a penny on an
expensive night out on the town. I met my American husband on the internet.
We corresponded for one month and fell very much in love. By the
time we met face to face, we were very excited with anticipation and we
shared some very passionate moments. You too can experience this
just by doing some basic searches on the
internet.
In these search services, you can
input the ethnic origin of the girl as well as specify where she currently
lives. I am sure with such a search, you could easily find profiles
of single Japanese girls who already live in Singapore. Also
remember that you can leave your profile too so that the ladies you seek
can find you instead of you always looking for them. |
 If you are still skeptical about meeting people on the internet, keep in
mind that it is much better than cruising bars, night clubs, and other hot
spots unless that's the type of girl you are looking for. Using the
net to find a new friend is a way to find precisely the kind of person you
are looking for. You can ask any type of questions you wish to qualify a
person, you are totally anonymous and safe in your home, and if you don't
feel anything special with your new friend, you don't have to feel sorry
about him or her if you choose not to correspond anymore (but be honest,
and reply with your feelings as it is not nice to just leave a person
wondering.) If you do hit it off, you can take it one step further
and start sending pictures. It's up to the two of you how far that
could go.
Later, you can both get
webcams and
use Skype
or some other program to have real-time video chat sessions. If you
still like each other and decide to meet in person, you can use the net to
figure out all of your travel plans. If you then decide to get
married, the net can still help you out with all sorts of immigration
information that you will need.
If
you want to find someone the old fashioned way, I would suggest you seek out
Japanese clubs or groups in Singapore. Generally speaking,
"birds of a
feather flock together". You might check if
any of the local colleges have Japanese student associations that meet
regularly. Universities tend to have large groups of foreign
students who are usually interested in meeting local people who can help
them with language and show them around a bit. You might try
volunteering some of your time as a tutor or a driver. You might already
know that Singapore is a very popular tourist and shopping destination for
Japanese girls and by becoming a volunteer tourist guide you will get many
chances to meet them. It would help if you studied a bit of the
Japanese language and history. Your new friends can help you
with that too.
I think it is really great that you show no preference towards age in a
woman, but keep in mind that finding a partner whose age closely matches
your own will probably result in a better relationship. Often times,
a guy will seek a much younger woman who may turn out to be a bit more
restless than he expected. An older woman is probably a better
choice if you can't find someone your own age. Keep in mind that on
the average, women live about seven years longer than men, and women
generally have their peak later in life than men also.
I hope I have answered your questions. Best wishes with your search.
Take your time, there are so many women, but only ONE is your soul
mate.
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