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Should enjo
kosai be banned?
MYNIPPON
believes that the Japanese Government should take serious steps to
ban it and prosecute those men who engage in it.
Whatever the cultural and social context that allows this to
happen, enjo kosai is not healthy for the young girls
involved. Engaging in
physical relations with an old man with the sole purpose of earning
money to be spent on luxurious goods is simply not healthy
(regardless of how casually it might be perceived by these girls).
Unfortunately,
we do not expect much to happen since the Government of Japan is
dominated by middle-aged men some of whom probably engage in these
acts themselves. Secondly,
no one in Japan openly admits of this being a problem, and
therefore, would claim that there is no need to fix something that
does not exist. Finally,
it is appears to be a win-win situation for both men and the girls
involved though in a rather sad way.
As Jim comments, "While it might be a win-win situation for the
man and the girl, the end result is not favorable for the girl.
The girl only wants two things - the great pleasure that the act
brings and the instant gratification of making fairly easy money for
the luxury items she wants. The young girls are so fashionable
and only wear the very best and most current clothing. I don't
think the activity will stop. Are the love hotels going to
close? No. Are men and women in Japan going to stop
cheating on each other? No. Are the girls and women
alike, going to stop wearing high heels and short, short mini
dresses? No. This practice of the young girl being
intimate with a much older man, perhaps even older than her father
and the Japanese culture for not discussing such problems in an open
forum will allow this practice to continue until it finally becomes
yet another of those complex traits of the Japanese people".
We will,
however, continue to emphasize in our writings that this is a
problem that can have significant impact on the psyche of Japanese
women as they grow into adults and it has to be addressed both
legally and socially immediately.
Megumi,
a Japanese woman, has written to MYNIPPON. "I feel sorry
for those Japanese girls who practice enjo-kosai. Why
the hell do they love to sacrifice their bodies just for some crappy
designer clothes? They are stupid, ignorant, easily influenced and
perfect targets for anybody who wants to take advantage of them.
I do not approve of those girls who rely on designer
clothes,
expensive accessories,
dyed hair,
mini-skirt, leather
boots, fishnets
to boost their
confident. Don't they have some self-respect? By
shopping to make themselves attractive to middle-aged men and then
having physical relations to earn money to shop more, these women
are entering a vicious circle."
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