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am a young man from Mexico and lack much experience in romance,
but I had the unexpected opportunity recently to meet a Japanese
girl,
Natsuko. She is my roommate's friend and came to visit him for the first
time in America. My roommate is a Japanese student in the US who is
already in college and a lot older than I am. I never imagined that I
would meet a Japanese girl since in Mexico you don't see Japanese very
often (I never met one until I moved to the US).
When
I met her I was cooking and in the brief moments I stepped up to talk to
her; the food caught fire: there was a lot of smoke and a very bad smell.
She got scared and totally freaked out. So as you can see, the
first day in our house was not what we expected it to be and thus began my
rather dramatic introduction to this beautiful girl.
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I
never had the chance to really have a conversation with her until the
third day in our house. My roommate went out with his girlfriend and he
left me in charge of her. She
needed to do the
laundry. I
used the opportunity to really get to know her since I always wanted to
meet a girl, who had no exposure to American life or language.
She had an extremely small English vocabulary so I had to help her
out. Even though we barley understood each other we had about two hours of
conversation; she seemed surprised that I was extremely polite and
personal (more physical contact that in Latin cultures is viewed as
normal) since in Mexico that was the way I was raised. After a wile I
asked her if she waned to play racquetball (she had never played this game
before); she accepted enthusiastically and was very excited. After that we
went to the pool to rest and ended up giving massages to each other.
Then I had the chance to talk to her about four more times, each
time lasting about half an hour. In those periods of time I had the chance
to notice her beautiful smile, her expressive eyes, and her delicate face
in detail.
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 The
day she was going to leave, I had the chance to talk to my roommate alone.
He told me that she liked me (which I already expected: every time I saw
her she would look and smile at me in a different way than she looked at
anyone else), but he also said I did not had a chance since she is very
beautiful and four years older than me (even though she looked younger –
just about my age). He said that while she liked me, it was unlikely that
it will go beyond that due to the fact that she was leaving soon and I was
so young.
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My
roommate left again and he was later on planning to take her to the
airport in five hours. So I helped her pack. When we finished I headed to
the door as I was going to leave the room but she came and stood in front
of me. Without realizing what
I was doing, I held her waist and told her that I was going to miss her.
Then I came closer to her face as if I was going to kiss her (which
I was) but she stopped me and said, "No kiss, no kiss." I hugged
her closer and started sliding my hands down and unsuccessfully I tried to
kiss her again. Then I slid my hand to her face and looked at her to
see if she was getting angry but instead she gave me that look she did
those other times. Then we went to the living room couch and started
kissing each other except for the lips. I got deeper and she did not gave
me the chance to kiss her on the lips until a while later. We got as far
as we could without doing anything else even though I was ready
to make love to her.
In
the end she took me to her room and
kissed some more but she only let me
kiss her on the lips three more times. I asked her why and she looked at
an English/Japanese dictionary, and the word she sowed me was
"embarrassed." She gave me an impression that that was what she
felt. I was very confused about that and I didn't know if it is my fault
or something. She left two hours later.
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