A few
days later I e-mailed her again and asked her if she wanted to get out of
town again for a day the following weekend. Not only did she say yes, she
told me she was looking forward to getting in to a co-ed public bath with
me! That day, although we never did make it to the public bath, she had no
hesitation taking my hand (for the day!), whispering sweet-nothings in my
ear, holding me, resting her head on my shoulder, and touching my legs.
Another sign of affection: another gift.
A week
later she called and said she wanted to spend the day together. Again, we
spent the day hand-in-hand. A week later she made the ultimate move: she
called and asked if she could come over and spend the night with me.
Myth #2: Japanese women are submissive
There is a stereotype
of Asian women as being submissive. Without defining the word, I can only
counter that. Indeed if this is the case, then it is only relative to
western women. I didn’t know what to expect when Rumiko came over to my
place, but I thought that I would be the one leading and commencing
proceedings. However, as I was about to, Rumiko excused herself. She went
to the restroom to wash up and change. It’s the first time that a woman
that I’ve been with and has been at my place has changed prior to coming
to bed. She clearly wanted to get into something she was comfortable in
and wanted to be in control of the initial dress
down.
Myth #3: Japanese women have bad teeth
While, yes, from a
dental perspective, many Japanese women leave a little something to be
desired in their teeth and mouths; they certainly do make up for it in
bed. From the moment my lips met hers, I was amazed at her ability to
kiss. The expert-like use of her tongue had me spinning. And when she
brought that expertise down for oral adventure, she again worked wonders.
The partnered use of her lips, tongue and teeth certainly lead to one very
long and pleasurable night!
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Myth #4: Japanese women are flat-chested
Again, technically,
yes, most women in Japan are relatively small, but it’s what they can do
with what is there that counts. First off, Rumiko, knew how to wear her
bra so as to exaggerate her cleavage and
cup size.
Secondly, she knew how to position herself so as to make them
look more full: usually sitting up, leaning over me.
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 Myth #5: Japanese women are always orderly
pragmatists
Once in bed, Rumiko
lost the pragmatism that I had come to expect of all Japanese – at all
times. She lost all inhibitions to any excuse – and I mean any and all!
She went from the professional conservative to giggling and
crazy. Myth #5B: Japanese women have nothing up their
sleeves
I awoke at one point
that night to find a gorgeous, smiling Rumiko riding me, again without
having placed protection. I simply enjoyed. During that little
wake-up surprise, Rumiko told me that she had my answer. My quizzical look
revealed from her that I had asked her age days back. She told me that she
was 30. That coupled with the fact of being with a woman
more than 5 years older than me, yet one who looked years younger, turned
me on and soon followed! |
Myth #6: Japanese women are innocent
We all know that looks
are deceiving and that certainly holds true in Japan. The most
conservative women can turn out to be some of the wildest, and vice versa.
Despite Rumiko’s conservative nature, our wild night notwithstanding, I
have found it so very easy to keep in touch with her, despite
having left Japan. She is open to my sending her fantasies and
many a time, she responds in kind!
While its unlikely
I’ll see Rumiko again and despite the fact that we were together for a
rather short time, she certainly has left an impact on me. I learned a lot
and she is one very strong memory that keeps Japan fresh in my mind.
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