Pick up guide for women

Believe it or not, several women have written to me asking where can they pick up guys (well, some asked the question differently - where can guys pick them up?). Men too have asked a similar question that I will address in a different article. In this article, let me provide a strategic overview for women on how to pick up men or even better, be picked up by men.

1. Go where the men are. Now you might be thinking that bars are places to go. Wrong! The bars have been pick up spots for so long that they have been hijacked by morons. So if you want to attract sporty men, you need to go to sports events (even if you hate them). If you want to attract men with lots of money, sign up for golf lessons. To attract the artsy type, you need to be where the artists are - museums, galleries, cafes, etc.
2. Don't play hard to get or have a "leave me alone" attitude. If you want a man to approach you, better have a pleasant demeanor that doesn't scare anyone off. It is OK to be mysterious and flirtatious to intrigue him but each step should lead him closer to you rather than turn him away.
3. It is fine to take control of the situation (or at least give solid hints) if the guy doesn't get it. For instance, if you are ready to kiss and he doesn't get it, go whisper something into his ear. He will then recognize that the light is green for him to make a move. If you want to pet, tell him that you are cold and need to go inside the car.

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