Men who like to wear women's lingerie

Lingerie for men is a hot topic these days, particularly with the holidays being around and everyone looking for a gift. It is no secret that a large number of men, and not all of them are metrosexuals, like the design and style of women's lingerie, and since similar designs are not made available for men (except by some Japanese lingerie companies but these products are being sold only in Japan), what these men do is to buy women's lingerie and despite recognizing that they can sometimes be less comfortable, they try to make the best of it.

But men who wear women's panties are divided into two distinct groups. One, those men who wear them but no one else knows about it. And there are plenty of such men. Two, the few lucky men whose partners know it or sometimes even buy it for them, and in many cases if the sizes match, they actually share the lingerie drawer.

Men in the first group are generally quite miserable. While they like what they can do, they still feel that something is wrong about them because the women in their lives are not able to accept their tastes. Many men who have written to me tell me that when their spouses/partners found out they were called all kinds of names, threatened with a breakup/divorce, and treated with ridicule and disgust. (Related article: Women need to learn to appreciate men who have fine tastes in lingerie)

So when Graeme wrote to say that he loves to wear his wife's lingerie and that she loves him wearing them, we wanted to find out what tips he had for other men on how to approach the issue with their wives/partners?

Graeme says that having an understanding and loving partner is, of course, key. If your partner is closed-minded and has only one set of ideas then you will not only have to work hard to change it, you might actually never succeed. He says, "I guess it comes back to the intimacy aspect. The previous girlfriend let me wear her panties when we were intimate but my wife thinks that it is normal that I wear her panties, rather our panties. Of course there are some that simply do not fit me, however, they are worn during love making."

His suggestion to men who would like to enjoy wearing women's lingerie with the full knowledge of their partner is that they should take an interest openly in her lingerie, look in her delicates drawer, and frequently ask her about them. Buy her attractive lingerie and then make sure that when you are both together you check out what she is wearing. That way she will know that you care about lingerie and it will make her feel more comfortable with you. Many women tend to think of lingerie as something too personal and a privilege reserved for women.

The other suggestion that Graeme has is that you may want to buy two identical panties (in different sizes, if necessary), one for her, one for you and make that a bond between the both of you.

Another suggestion that I have received from Michael is that if you are afraid that your partner is going to freak out if she finds out, then do it as a fun thing first. If she freaks out then you can simply pretend as if it was all a joke, and depending on how important she is to you, you can either tell her goodbye or never wear in front of her again. Graeme even suggests that you can simply slip out of bed in the dark one night and put some panties on whilst she cannot see you, then get back into bed and surprise her. The silkiness and touch will turn her on. Who knows that she might even become like Graeme's wife!

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